Are we in that category of people where every problem in our life is someone else’s fault? Or are we among the handful of people who accepts the responsibilities that comes along and tries to tackle it. Yes, it is very easy to play the blame game and remove ourselves from taking responsibility. Perhaps, instead of avoiding our responsibilities or complaining and making excuses, accepting it will enable us to lead a more contented life and definitely make a difference in the society.
“Victim Mentality “
In life, we experience moments of joy, happiness, sorrow, and sadness. All these emotions are the elements of life. Likewise, issues and difficulties arise in all fields of human society. At present in Naga society there are certain concerns and issues, that needs to be addressed whether be it in the field of economic, political, social, personal, workplace etc. It is unfortunate but quite evident that majority of the people in the society tends to blame each other and does not take responsibility if some problem arises in our social system. There are only a few individuals who are ready to take charge and not try to find faults in others but instead try to solve the problems.
Instead of blaming one another how good it will be if we take the responsibility for the actions and deeds we have done and rectify the errors and improve our society and ourselves as well. As parents, children, students, leaders, and citizens of Nagaland we need to be responsible for overcoming the dilemma of life. I feel that being responsible is the most important guiding principle and the core of life. It should be inculcated and instilled in every individual beginning from home environment.
We may think that life is sometimes not fair at all. We all faces challenges and learn lessons in life and while we are down with all the challenges life throws at us, we see that others are doing better than us and living a much easier life. However, we should not be discouraged in this kind of situations. Instead, we need to take life positively because we are responsible for our life. Negativity creates dissatisfactions which hinder our goals and objectives in life. When we become responsible in every aspect of life, we become a giver, rather than a taker. In return, it can create a profound positive impact on the society. The reason why our society/personal life tends to stagnate in development and growth may be because we fear of taking responsibility on issues concerning us and the world. Therefore, let’s all be responsible and play our own role and empower humanity.
Degree of Thought is a weekly community column initiated by Tetso College in partnership with The Morung Express. Degree of Thought will delve into the social, cultural, political and educational issues around us. The views expressed here do not reflect the opinion of the institution. Tetso College is a NAAC Accredited UGC recognised Commerce and Arts College. The editors are Dr Hewasa Lorin, Tatongkala Pongen, Seyiesilie Vupru and Kvulo Lorin. Portrait photographer: Rhilo Mero. For feedback or comments please email:dot@tetsocollege.org.
I have read your write-up thrice and every time i read; it made me think about certain aspects of human society. Every society is made up of social groups and every social groups consists of people having their dreams, aspirations, thoughts, opinions, likings, dislikings, attitudes and perspectives. In the context of this complex situation the wonderful thoughts reflected in your write up should be understood. The concept of 'Responsibility' can be understood from individual as well as 'social group' perspective. Every individual has problems at individual level and also at social level as a part of certain social group. Now, the question that has been haunting me is this- whether individual sense of responsibility can overlap social sense of responsibility. Let us understand this situation with example- Individual 'A' is suffering from problems at individual level, he is suffering, his wife, children, whole of his family is suffering. One fine day he decides to take up a responsibility to change the destiny of his family and finally he succeeds. However, on the other hand, the community which 'A' is part of is equally suffering but at larger scale. 'A's newly found prosperity will have no contribution to change the destiny of his community. Now 'A' is in dilemma. He took responsibility to change the destiny of himself and his family, now he is wondering whether to change the destiny of his society is his responsibility as an individual or not. Whether he as an individual required to shoulder a responsibility? whether he as an individual can change the destiny of millions of his society? His dilemma is a dilemma of many people. However, what i understand is, the sense of 'responsibility' should always be understood at larger scale without artificially limiting its application. Suffering is universal and therefore responsibility to take necessary steps to alleviate the suffering should be universal responsibility. When we think about universal brotherhood we should lift up our human spirit beyond the idea of individualism. The idea of justice and happiness cannot be seen from individualistic perspective. If i am blessed with abundance and at the same time someone less fortunate having no single granule of grain to eat then i believe as a human it is my responsibility to see that he survives and similarly the same principle is applicable to society. Artificial ethnic, cultural, tribal, social, political and geographic boundaries cannot limit our sense of responsibilities towards each other. Man is a Man ….whether he is in the jungles of Congo, in the city of Mumbai..or struggling in the Nagaland…Man always remains man. Man will always remain a man of blood and flesh whether he is an untouchable Dalit in India, suppressed Naga of Nagalands, Hungry-malnourished Black from Africa or stateless refugee Tibetan from Tibet…. There is an invisible bond that connect every human being on Earth, and that bond is ….a bond of pain and suffering. We owe this human existence to each other. We destine to shoulder the collective responsibility to transform this burning world of suffering into the world of justice and equality where man will not be judged but loved.
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